FIRST STEPS
Getting started
Looking for day care, respite or assisted living for your loved one can feel overwhelming. Perhaps it’s one of the hardest and most emotional decisions you’ve ever faced.
Begin by gathering information. Do your research, meet with others in similar situations, join caregiver groups. Knowledge is empowering and will help guide you as you navigate this transition.
Above all, remember: You’re not alone.
In addition to the numerous resources available here in Memphis, our staff at Apple Grove can help guide you through this journey. Here is a guide to help you through.
Common Questions
Research & communicating with family
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This isn’t always possible, but work to understand what your loved one needs to feel comfortable and secure. Picture your loved one and their daily routine. What couldn’t they live without? Also take time to determine what you need in a facility and caregiver team to feel comfortable during this transition and over the long term.
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To prepare for a family meeting about your loved one’s care, create an agenda covering their ccurrent condition, safety concerns and potential care options. Share it with the family beforehand. During the meeting, set ground rules for respectful communication to ensure everyone has a chance to speak and be heard.
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What things in your loved one’s life will help bring stability and comfort when they move into a new community. Personal belongings, hobbies, gardening, cooking, music. Write them down for discussion when you tour each residence.
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Organize a list of questions and must-haves on your tours.
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Do they look comfortable and relaxed, and are they well groomed? How much time is given to personal care and hygiene, and are these times flexible?
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Did you notice any family or friends on-site during your tour? Is the atmosphere warm and welcoming, or does it feel anxious and unsettling? Ask if families have 24-hour access and room-monitoring capabilities.
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A good staff-to-resident ratio is 1 to 4. Ask how many staff members are trained specifically in Alzheimer’s and dementia care?
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Sit in on daily activities to watch how the staff interacts with families and residents. Are activities creatively planned to help residents relax, reduce stress and stimulate the mind?
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Is it free of unpleasant odors? Is the property well cared for, and are the grounds properly secured and monitored? Are residents’ rooms tidy, and are common areas filled with comfortable, inviting décor? Is the food healthy, flavorful and inviting to eat?
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How often are rooms checked? How is medication dispensed? How is a family notified when behavior or medical conditions change?
Touring communities
Find a Home With Us
While making appointments to tour communities, add Apple Grove to your list. We’ll walk with you every step of the way, not just as experts in Alzheimer’s and dementia care but also as part of your trusted caregiver team. We’ll also thoroughly answer questions, address your checklist, and help you determine what type of care–day care, respite or assisted living care– is right for your loved one, today and in the future.